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Dadmissions goes trick or treating with the girls and then takes all their candy

I was a man on a mission..a Dadmission to get home in the middle of my night shift from work to trick or treat with the girls.

I got home, made them a nutritious dinner (chicken nuggets and smiley fries), carved a pumpkin (hacked at it till it somewhat resembled a black cat), helped them get in their costumes (stood there while the wife figured it out), and then we went on our way out the door.

I love trick or treating. When I was a kid, I have fond/traumatic memories of my dad getting in the big blue 1970's Plymouth Fury and slowly, stalkingly following us down the street with his headlights on as my sister and I walked door to door trick or treating so he could protect us from the weirdos! I prefer the more natural approach of actually walking with your kids.

For Halloween 2012, we had a southern belle and a cute little fairy, two sisters walking hand in hand through South Pasadena. My apologies to the people who called 4 year old Andreya a princess only for her to correct them and say she was a fairy. My apologies to the Viking who almost went down when he tripped on 7-year-old Alicia as he walked in costume! We did Meridian Ave and part of Oak street and then made the turn to Diamond which has become the closest thing to Mardi Gras that I've ever seen.

The kids were cleaning up big time. Their candy bags were bursting. They walked behind the guy in the skeleton mask because he was too scary. And they avoided the haunted house for the same reason, although dad still wishes he was able to go inside. There was a band rocking out on Diamond, costumes everywhere, and my two little kids soaking it all up. It was awesome. My time was limited and I was about to turn back into a pumpkin if I didn't get the kids home and get back to work. We brought the kids back to the house as they guarded their candy stash.

My wife then began the Halloween negotiations.

With these full bags of candy, she convinced the kids to pick two candies each, and she told them the rest was going back with dad to work. So unfair. My friend at work analyzed the situation just right saying it's more of a "catch and release" type Halloween. The kids are in it for the joy of the hunt, the sheer incredible fortune that for one night, for one night only, they get to go door to door getting candy even if they aren't allowed to eat it. I dropped the kids at home, got back in the car, and headed back to finish my night shift at work. I couldn't help but think that if the ADULTS trick or treated on Halloween and the KIDs gave out candy, that I'd hope they'd give fun size bars of spare time and sleep, the things adults yearn for most. On the way to work, don't tell anyone, I rifled through their candy bags on a little mini candy binge.. got myself an Almond Joy, a Reese's, a Kit Kat and maybe a couple of others that shall remain nameless.

I was like a kid in a candy store.

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ROBERT E. FISHBACK May 19, 2013 at 01:30 pm
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ROBERT E. FISHBACK May 19, 2013 at 08:34 am
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Betty Jean May 20, 2013 at 11:13 am
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Thomas Thieme May 18, 2013 at 09:21 pm
Thank you but rather than ask South Pas residents to dig into their own pockets yet again, why notRead More help teachers by using funds already available? We have historically high reserves and stable state funding for several years.The district refuses to even negotiate salary increases. As of the past week, the district also now refuses to negotiate reduced class size changes. The recent parcel tax was passed largely to ensure that class sizes would stay low. How is it they can take money from citizens promising this and then not follow through?
ROBERT E. FISHBACK May 18, 2013 at 07:34 am
This is sad and angering. Supers seem to cursed with a strain of lowsy. This is when the people enRead More masse need to stand up for the teachers and start their own pot of relief until the over due raise comes on line.
ROBERT E. FISHBACK May 18, 2013 at 11:02 am
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ROBERT E. FISHBACK March 29, 2013 at 01:24 pm
I cant tell you where I live....you would ban my posts ! But, my childhood roots are in Glendale,Read More but I have many pleasant memories of the Pasadena Winter Garden where I used to skate when I has about twelve (1950). I was playing with puberty and oh, the girls in their shortie dresses and legs....There was such a romantic feel to the place. I think I recall a circular wood burner in which there was a fire going on cold days and nights. I still have a punch card showing I was a member of the Penguin Club. There is an area in Glendale that has a peculiar feel to it and it is between Virginia and Mountain....roughly between Ruberta and Central. This isnt Pasadena, of course. That area was my stomping grounds in the 40's. Right there, I thought...it was right there where we talked and laughed....under the light of a street lamp..she was so very cute and precocious. All gone away so long ago..I "heard" her laugh in a capricious breeze that sprang, up...also carrying the scents of Jasmine...So many stories like this in Pasadena too. The people who came and went, but left in their wake a presence like a fire fly's glowing arc.
Donna Evans (Editor) March 29, 2013 at 01:07 pm
@Robert Thanks! You totally made my day :-)
ROBERT E. FISHBACK March 29, 2013 at 12:25 pm
This has to be one of best posts...ever...so pleasant...great writing...There is an ambiance to thatRead More area which I noticed when I lived out there...Pleasantly haunted with happy little things....BOOO !